"On my wedding day, I spent more time with my glam squad, planner, and photographer than with my own mother." Mostly Rational Bride , Yael Mark (2025) Your photographer’s vibe matters as much as their portfolio . Especially if you’re the kind of person who freezes when a camera points your way or doesn't know what to do when the photographer says, "Look natural," (hi, same) A photographer doesn’t just document  the day. They actively shape it. The right one: Makes you laugh w

Here you are, lying awake at 1:17 a.m. wondering if napkins should be ivory or soft candlelight cream. Welcome to wedding planning, where every choice feels permanent, public, and somehow a reflection of your entire personality. Mostly Rational Bride (2025) If you’re second-guessing everything , you’re not alone. You’re in the exact mental trap most brides fall into. Let’s talk about what’s actually happening, and what to do with these new feelings and this unreasonable  num