"On my wedding day, I spent more time with my glam squad, planner, and photographer than with my own mother." Mostly Rational Bride , Yael Mark (2025) Your photographer’s vibe matters as much as their portfolio . Especially if you’re the kind of person who freezes when a camera points your way or doesn't know what to do when the photographer says, "Look natural," (hi, same) A photographer doesn’t just document  the day. They actively shape it. The right one: Makes you laugh w